So because February is supposed to be the month of Love, I thought I would do a few love related or how to get throught the dating stage in the finding Love process.
I did prevoiusly record this as a podcast 7 QUESTIONS TO ASK ON A FIRST DATE a couple years ago. And yes I am recycling old information, but do you know what? it is still useful and evergreen.
I was previously inspired to do this post by watching a YOUTUBE video by THINKTANK a couple years ago.
And again now to go with the month of Love theme.
I myself have tried online dating, but not a big fan. And I am guessing if you’re in Lockdown. Dating will mainly be taking place by messaging and video calling, if the relationship is new. But anyways lets get into the questions to ask on a First date or Virtual date.
TELL ME A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELF?
This question is asked to gather information on the person’s background. From working routine, family life to lifestyle. And to gather ideas of the person you’re on a date with hopes and asspirations. And what they are doing in the present time.
WHAT WAS YOUR DAY LIKE YESTERDAY?
By asking this question it will give you a insight in the day to day life of the person you’re on a date with. What exactly do they do in a normal day, and hopefully not give off information that their day to day life is always busy, which will make you be wary as to if they have time for a proper relationship at that present moment.
WHAT ARE YOU PASSIONATE ABOUT?
This question will give you a insight into the person you’re on a date with interests and what they enjoy doing. And to give youself more knowledge if you have similar things in common and can do things together, as in hobbies, sports and other interests.
WHAT DO YOU LIKE ABOUT YOUR JOB? OR HATE?
By asking this question you can gather a better idea of the person’s job. What they do in their job. What they like and dislike about their job.
WHAT’S THE WEIRDEST THING ABOUT YOURSELF?
Hopefully this will put a smile on both of your faces. It is a intriguing but random question to ask. But it’s also a fun question to ask. Hopefully the answer is not too bizarre 🙂
WHAT’S YOUR FAVOURITE WAY TO ENJOY YOUR SATURDAYS?
Now this is a interesting question to be asked. And you can gather a lot of information by the answer to the question. Which will indicate to you do they work on Saturdays, do they have a lie-in on Saturdays, do they do all the housework on Saturdays, do they go to the Gym for a all-day workout. Is it a TV Sports day and so on. So many responses to this question.
WHAT WAS YOU LIKE AS A KID?
Now this is another intriguing question to be asked, and it can give you a insight into their family life when they was younger. And was they a good child or did they do their own thing. Was they a quiet kid or not.
WHAT QUESTIONS DO YOU ALWAYS ASK ON A FIRST DATE?
To be honest it has been along time for me, been living the single life for a very long time. But one can only hope and see how 2021 plays out.
These are actually great questions! They aren’t too invasive and def do give a bit of insight into the other person’s life.
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Exactly, thanks for reading 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
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